My mother died eleven years ago and I long to know if she is happy where she is. Can you help me?

Lorraine, Birkenhead

Hi Lorraine, Your mother is happy but are you? I can't believe you do this now but I can see someone drinking from a bottle of pop without a glass. Burnt toast is something I see as well.

Your mum is fine but you have to look after yourself and stop putting people first I know everyone would like to think they do that, but you do. There have been times when you have cried for your mother and she has been there. And times when you have felt so stupid for being so sad but some people need to have their mother around.

Don't feel sad about what you did or didn't say. It's all forgotten as far as she is concerned. You look like her when you lose it or go off on one. Do you get respect from family? I feel you don't, or consideration.