Hiya James, A friend of mine passed away a couple of years ago just before Christmas. Please can you tell me if he is at peace and let him know I think about him everyday?

Also, please let him know that I am going to be a mum.

SSS, Cumbria

Dear SSS, You don't have to worry that he is not around - he is always. For some reason I keep seeing Windermere or the little town after it, it's the lake or the buildings near it, near a car park that I can see. I would love to say what sex your child is but you already know, don't you?